A sermon for Baptism, Confirmation, and the Renewal of Baptismal Vows
We are gathered here today to see a truly extraordinary thing.
We’re here today to watch the unfolding of a plan that God set in motion from before the foundation of the world.
Today two families, with their supporters, are going to enter into a covenant with God, they’re going to say “yes” to raising their child to know and love the Lord, so that child knows they have a Heavenly Father. That’s extraordinary.
Today a young man and a young woman are going to stand before God and before you, and they’re going to say “yes”, we accept the vows that were made at our baptism, yes, I know I need God’s help and I want to live as a member of God’s family. That’s extraordinary.
And today, one of your sisters, Helen, will stand before God and before you, and, having gone through the ups and downs of life, and having come to better understand what it means to trust in God, she will re-affirm her vows, and ask for the strengthening of the gift of God’s Holy Spirit as she lives them out. Extraordinary!
This is big stuff. This is not just life-changing stuff, this is the sort of stuff that changes eternity, making the decision to accept and live out the promises of God – and more than that – admitting that none of us can do it on our own, baptism and confirmation is us saying to God “yes, I need your help. I can’t do it on my own, I can’t save myself, I can’t work hard enough or do enough good to fix the world around me: I need to accept God’s offer to adopt me as His own.”
Did you hear that?
It’s extraordinary – it might even sound crazy! – to suggest that God would want to adopt me and you as members of His family, to really be Our Father.
But that’s what you’re going to witness today.
And it sounds crazy… but it’s something that God promises long ago in ages past.
God’s Design for Relationship with Him
You see, from the very beginning, God intended for us to live with him.
Not just to know He’s there – but to really live with Him.
Not as enemies, not as acquaintances, not as neighbours going through life, God minding His business and us minding ours. No, God intended for us to live with Him as children, in peace with each other, in peace with God and with all of creation.
But, as much as we might wish there was another way, God knew that true love can’t be forced. From the beginning, God didn’t force people to love Him.
No, true love, that offer to live as members of the family of God, is offered.
But it can be accepted, or it can be rejected.
And I’m sure all of us know what happened next – and even if we’re not familiar with the Bible, we can see the effects of what happened rippling out across all of time and space. God offered that love to all of humanity, but it was rejected.
We wanted to trust our own way instead of trusting the one who made it all.
And God, as much as it made Him grieve, respected that choice. And, no matter your age, no matter your experience, if you’re honest, I’m sure you’ll agree that – while there is good in the world – we aren’t up to the task of being our own Lord. Me, and you, we are powerless to save ourselves or fix the world around us. We need God’s help.
But, the good news is that God knows that. And, from the beginning, He didn’t leave us on our own. His plan from the start was to send His Son to crush the serpent’s head, to win victory over the devil and his lies. His plan – and it’s the extraordinary thing that we are about to witness today – was just as we heard read from Jeremiah chapter 31 – He would give a New Covenant – He would make an agreement with ordinary people like you and me, that we could be His… and He – God – could be ours. That we could say “Our Father” and truly mean it. God said “I will put my law – my ways – within them, and I will write it on their hearts, and I will be their God, and they shall be my people”.
That’s incredible!
And He means it! For those who accept God’s plan, who trust in Jesus as their Saviour and become part of the new covenant in his blood offered on the cross, you can really run to God – yes, the Almighty Creator of everything that is – you can run to Him, cry out to Him, “my God, my God”, help me my father – and it’s true, because He says that’s how it is.
God is willing and wanting to adopt any person into His family… all it takes is admitting that He is God and we are not. That our ways, our trying, our striving, our attempts at doing good, can never actually save ourselves. It’s admitting, like we are doing here today, that “yes, God, I need your help.”
What’s New About this New Covenant?
This is the “new covenant” that God promised long ago, and which came in the fullness of time when Jesus, God’s only Son, stepped into our place and did what we could never do for ourselves.
So what is this covenant, what’s “new” about it?
Well, look at what we read from Jeremiah. Look there towards the bottom of that reading, verses 32 to 34.
In this promised new covenant, who does the work?
(wait) Is it something that we need to sort out? Something where we need to get ourselves clean enough, fix ourselves up, figure it out for ourselves?
No! “I”, says God. God, as a loving, caring, providing, merciful father – far beyond even the best human father you could imagine – does the work. He reaches out. He says “I will do it”.
And just like marriage vows create a new family, the vows of this covenant create a new identity… if you’ll accept it. God says “I will do it”. God says, you will be my child, and I will be your father. That means – if you accept it – you, yes, you, with all your doubts and fears and hurts and struggles, and the two steps forward and one step back that we all have as we go through life, you are granted access to the throneroom of the Almighty God who created heaven and earth.
…because you’re a child of the King.
You – yes, you – are given the right to speak directly, to cry out directly to Almighty God in prayer, because, yes – even though He’s the all-powerful creator of the universe, far above our ways and worthy to be feared, even though that’s true, He loves you, He wants to adopt you as His child. Yeah, he’s running the universe, but it’s never an interruption when you cry out to him, because you’re a follower of Jesus His Son, and you’ve accepted the offer for God to look at you in Christ, rather than look at you based on your works or what you have done.
And this covenant has benefits – because of the relationship we can have with God, because that relationship has been made right by God, God’s own spirit, the Holy Spirit, our helper and guide, offers to move in – as the Bible says, He comes to take our hard hearts of stone and turn them into real, proper, living, beating hearts – He comes to give us life, renovating us from the inside out.
You see, this thing you’re about to do, this thing you’re about to witness…
It really is extraordinary!
God will do it! …But He won’t force it.
But remember – love can’t be forced. Family can’t be forced.
God offers for us to live as His children of the new covenant, but it can be accepted or rejected.
I have a question for those of you who have been following and trusting in Jesus for a while. Just a simple yes or no, but, if you’re a follower of Jesus, answer out loud so that those making promises today know what to expect.
Question – after you decide to follow Jesus, is it always easy to live as a child of God?
No! It isn’t.
Ok, question – does accepting God’s offer, and deciding to follow Jesus, mean that all your problems instantly go away, and life will always be sunshine and lollypops from now on?
No! Not at all.
The effects of the world, the flesh, and the devil rejecting God’s will still echo and ripple out through all of creation, and your own flesh and blood will struggle with it all through this earthly life.
But, last question – For those who follow Jesus, for those who put their trust in God, who say “yes” to his will and his plan, who depend on him as Lord, and Saviour, and Father… is it worth it, even through the ups and downs?
Yes. To who else could we go, who else could we trust in, if not the one who made it all?
So my friends, it means you have a choice to make. God offers a new way to live under this new covenant – He offers a new identity, adopted into his family, a God-given renovation of your heart and mind. But it isn’t forced.
Paul’s Letter to Timothy gives us a good reminder of what it takes to live this out.
Three “P”s. Proclaim, Be Persistent, Have Patience.
We need to proclaim the good news to others, but first, we need to proclaim it again and again to ourselves. Read God’s Word, get to know it, get used to hearing His voice, so that when life gets you down, you can hear the promises of God.
Be persistent in the good times and the bad. There’s going to be ups and downs, but be persistent – God will complete the good work he has begun in you, and He is the only one who can work all things together for the good of those who love him.
And have patience. The Christian life isn’t easy, but it is good. It can take a while for Jesus’ way, truth, and life, to really settle in and renovate our way of thinking and being.
See, my friends, we’re about to do something extraordinary.
You guys being confirmed and re-affirming your vows, you’re accepting something extraordinary.
Parents, you’re doing something extraordinary.
Today, you are saying Yes to God’s plan, Yes to being a child of God.
May God give us the strength to live together as that family, proclaiming and persevering with patience, and all to God’s glory, now and forevermore.